Expert Educational Psychology Support for School Anxiety, Autism, ADHD, Learning Difficulties, Friendships or Emotional Needs

If your child is struggling in school with anxiety, learning, friendships, low self-esteem or emotional regulation - whether this is linked to neurodiversity or not - you are not alone.

As an educational psychologist, I help families and schools understand what’s going on and create a clear, evidence-based plan so your child can feel calmer, happier, and more supported in school.

Get in touch for a free, no obligation 15 minute chat to discuss your child's needs and explore how I can help. 

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If any of these sound familiar, you’re in the right place:

  • Anxiety about school, lessons, or social situations.
  • Meltdowns before or after school
  • Emotional dysregulation or behavioural challenges
  • Struggles with friendships or feeling “different”.
  • Difficulties communicating with others. 
  • Learning difficulties or falling behind.
  • Sensory overload or exhaustion from masking

I specialise in helping families understand why these difficulties happen — and what practical steps will make life easier.

What I Help With

School Anxiety

Understand your child's worries and build a plan to support them feel safer and happier in school. 

Autism & ADHD

Being autistic or having ADHD in a world designed for neurotypicals can bring many challenges and requires a sensitive, neuro-affirming approach. 

Difficulties with emotional regulation.

Practical support for meltdowns, shutdowns, explosive after-school behaviours and fight, flight and freeze. 

Difficulties with Learning

Understand your child's strengths and needs so they can access learning and make progress. 

Friendships & Confidence

Help to build your child's friendships, social understanding and a sense of belonging. 

Assessments for EHCPs

If the Local Authority has agreed to assess your child for an EHC but there is a long wait for them to see a LA EP, I may be able to help. 

How You Can Work With Me

Get clarity on what is really going on.

A full educational psychology assessment with leave you with a holistic understanding of your child's strengths and needs, outcomes for your child to work towards in school and recommendations about the kind of support they will need.

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One hour guidance you can act on today.

A consultation is a focused session where we work together to unpick what’s driving one specific difficulty your child is facing at school — giving you clarity and practical next steps you can put in place right away.

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Resources and courses for School Anxiety

Feel calmer, clearer and more confident about how to support your child with their school based worries.

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Come Along to My Next Masterclass!

Six Simple Steps to Help Your Child Through Fight, Flight or Freeze - A One Hour Masterclass for Parents of Children Aged 6 to 16 with School Anxiety. 

Feel calm, confident and connected when your child panics before school or has an after-school meltdown.

Date: 2nd December 2025.  

Time: 8pm to 9pm. 

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Hi, I’m Nicky, an independent Educational Psychologist based in Cambridge with more than a decade of experience helping children, families, and schools navigate the challenges that make school feel hard.  

My professional background includes:

  • Senior Educational Psychologist within a Local Authority.
  • Extensive experience writing Educational Psychology advice for EHC Needs Assessments.
  • Developing and delivering ELSA (Emotional Literacy Support Assistant) training, both within a Local Authority and independently. ELSAs help children manage emotions, boost confidence, understand friendships, and cope with bereavement and loss.
  • Running MeLSA (Motivating Learning Support Assistant) training, building school staff capacity to support children who have learning difficulties.
  • Delivering training for parents, schools, Multi-Academy Trusts and organisations on how to recognise and respond to children’s anxiety.
  • Leading a multi-professional working group to create Local Authority guidance for schools and families on supporting children with school-based anxiety.

I combine psychological theory, neurodiversity-affirming practice, and practical school experience so you get support that is both compassionate and effective.

In-Depth Assessment

Get clarity on what is really going on.

A full educational psychology assessment to get a detailed understanding of your child's strengths and needs. These can be especially helpful if you want to apply for an EHC needs assessment or you want to commission a report to submit as educational psychology advice for an EHC assessment that has already been agreed by the Local Authority - or if you just need detailed recommendations for school.  

A full educational psychology assessment typically involves me talking to you and school staff (when possible), observing your child in school, talking to your child to gain their views and undertaking relevant assessments. 

I would like to book an assessment

One-Hour Online Consultation

Instant guidance you can use right away.

A consultation is a focused session where we work together to unpick what’s driving one specific difficulty your child is facing at school — giving you clarity and practical next steps you can put in place right away.

I would like to book a consultation.

Resources and Courses to Support School Anxiety

If your child is finding school overwhelming and you’re trying to make sense of what’s really going on, you’re not alone — and you don’t have to figure it out without support.

I help parents understand the reasons behind school-based anxiety, even when children mask their feelings at school or struggle to explain what’s wrong.

My aim is for you to feel informed, supported and reassured — with clear tools and strategies you and your child's school can put into place straight away.

Resources to help you feel more confident and empowered in supporting your child's school based-worries

Download Your Free Guide to Supporting Your Child Through Fight, Flight or Freeze

Download my free guide for simple things you can do and say to support your young person back to calm. Learn: 

  • simple phrases that reassure without dismissing your child's feelings. 
  • practical steps you can take in the moment to reduce stress. 
  • gentle strategies to help your young person feel understood. 
Send Me the Free Guide!

Explore My Weekly Video Blogs

Each week, I share a short, practical video to help you support your child if they’re finding school challenging. You’ll find them all in my Support Hub. Many of the blogs have free downloadable resources to make things a little easier at home and in school.

Check Out the Support Hub

Join the School Anxiety Support Facebook Group

Follow on Facebook to get advice, support and chat about how to support your child with school anxiety and barriers to attendance. 

Join Facebook Group

Courses to deepen your understanding of why school is so hard and give you practical strategies to help reduce your child's worries.

Come Along to My Next Masterclass!

Six Simple Steps to Help Your Child Through Fight, Flight or Freeze - A One Hour Masterclass for Parents of Children Aged 6 to 16 with School Anxiety. 

Feel calm, confident and connected when your child panics before school or has an after-school meltdown.

Date: 2nd December 2025.  

Time: 8pm to 9pm. 

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Feeling Unsure Why Your Child is Finding School so Difficult?

The School Attendance Clarity Cards Can Help You Make Sense of What's Going On.

Designed for children and young people aged 7–16, these cards offer a simple and supportive way for them to share how they feel about school — even if they usually struggle to put things into words. They open up meaningful conversations so you can understand their worries more clearly and start identifying what support they may need.

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Opening for Enrolment Spring 2026

School Anxiety Support Online Course - Empowering Parents to Confidently Navigate School-Based Worries. 

  • I'll help you shift from feeling overwhelmed and unsure to empowered, supported and clear about the path ahead.
  • Step by step, I’ll guide you through creating a practical plan tailored to your child—one that prioritises their wellbeing and sets realistic goals.
  • You’ll learn simple, effective strategies for everyday support at home, and feel more equipped to work with the school so your child gets the help they need.
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